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Deep Hygiene

How do we come out of this mess?

German Family therapist Bert Hellinger died on 19-9-2019.

He has inspired many people through his writing, and he developed what has become known as “constellation work” – “Family Constellations, also known as Systemic Constellations and Systemic Family Constellations, is an alternative therapeutic method which draws on elements of family systems therapy, existential phenomenology and Zulu attitudes to family.[1] In a single session, a Family Constellation attempts to reveal a supposedly unrecognized dynamic that spans multiple generations in a given family and to resolve the deleterious effects of that dynamic by encouraging the subject, through representatives, to encounter and accept the factual reality of the past.” (Wikipedia)

In his honour, I want to republish an article I wrote many years ago, when Family Constellation was hardly known:

Bonding, Order and Knowledge

Articles about Marriage and Relationships:

Loving-Kindness and Forgiveness (2/2/2018)

Life Change (23/1/2018)

Marturing with Purity (25/3/2015)

Beliefs (24/8/2014)

Healthy Marriage (3/8/2014)

Signs of Love (6/1/2014)

Personal Empowerment (29/7/2013)

About Energy Psychology (14/6/2013)

Broadcasting Thoughts (18/5/2013)

Unity in Diversity in Couple Relationships (15/4/2013)

Articles on Gestalt Therapy:

The Power of Gentleness

Aroha – or – What constitutes Healing in Psychotherapy?


Do not be content with showing friendship in words alone, let your heart burn with loving kindness for all who may cross your path. – Abdu’l-Baha

Religion should unite all hearts and cause wars and disputes to vanish from the face of the earth, give birth to spirituality, and bring life and light to each heart. If religion becomes a cause of dislike, hatred and division, it were better to be without it, and to withdraw from such a religion would be a truly religious act. For it is clear that the purpose of a remedy is to cure; but if the remedy should only aggravate the complaint it had better be left alone. Any religion which is not a cause of love and unity is no religion. (Abdu’l-Baha, Paris Talks, p. 130) The Baha’i Faith

Older articles can be made available by request. Please let us know what you are interested in.

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